If there's something we really look forward to on our dates, apart from seeing each other(ofcourse?!) is the sharing and the never ending chikahan. Last na yung food, hndi naman kami matatakaw charot!:D I was expecting that the chikahan will get pretty serious and intense since it's Grace's turn for a privilege speech about the controversial break up hehehe but i was wrong. It was a serious topic yes but the sharing and interaction was pretty chillax with the crazy sensible inputs from me and Jhe(kasali daw talaga ako hahaha) and the occasional smiles/grins in agreement of the boys.
We lounged at fruit magic for a good 3 hours and i must say it was one of the best-est 3 hours spent with friends that i had as long as i can remember charots aside.We had pizza(all meat,not the typical round one, on a soft bread&tastes pretty good in all fairness),pasta(in spicy tuna and in sausage served with bread sticks), calamnsi muffin(yes they serve calamnsi muffins and it was yummy)and of course smoothies(ripe mango, strawberry banana,choco banana and merry berry.the ripe mango probably tasted real good as jhe had her second serving hehe:D)
I don't know but spending time with these girls is just addicting hahaha!! Can't get enough of the sharing, from kaartehan to sensitive issues of the heart and even intellectual achuchuchoos hehehe:D
On BreakUps:
No one ever wins. It's such an ugly part of the cycle of life but it's necessary-you have to go thru the ugliest break ups to be able to have the courage and the wit to start a beautiful beginning. You have to go thru the pain to gain experience. You have to stumble,fall and roll to taste how liberating it is to get up with your head up.
It's always easy to ask a friend to move on but we all know it'll take time. The feeling of emptiness is unavoidable but as long as you've got friends who's willing to fill it in with love it's gonna be an easier feat.
To Grace, we'd always be here for you,hang in there..we got your back ;)
On Cheating Beaus&Relationships:
Hayh, how can we miss this out...be it cheating to the highest extent or casual flirting...IT"S STILL ANNOYING!!:D I wanted not to believe that man are polygamous by nature but over the years, i had doubts hehehe:D(peace hunnieh) Guys, whatever reasons or intentions you have in mind be it the slightest form of crush to that new officemate or just a breather from that week-long boyfriend/girlfriend tampuhans and badtrippans that's stressing you out it's still absolutely WRONG to cheat!!! You're just causing more trouble to the existing dilemma you have with your girls. And girls, don't give them reasons to look at the opposite side of the fence,sure,that side may look greener but assure your beaus that your side of the fence would always be tastier and healthier:D
I realize that this issue usually gets resolved thru constant,honest communication. It's normal to appreciate other creatures but not to the extent that you'd do something to jeopardize the relationship you've built and nourished over the years.
As i always say, relationships lasts for as long as you both have the will to make it work. If you feel that you lost that will, try to find out why and re-asses yourself and the relationship. If that doesn't work and you feel the need to get out of the bond, DON'T use it as an excuse to cheat!!!! It's just so unfair! Don't be a coward and have the balls to tell your partner the truth,he/she deserves it.
Relationships are blessings, we have to take care of it, nurture it and feed it with love,faith and all sorts of beautiful experience and memories so it can grow and give birth to a splendid and blissful lifetime.
I am lucky i found my match, Jhe is lucky she found her Ivan. It's a beautiful journey for us now and i hope for Grace too(soon).
On Life&Friendship:
Friendship has always been and will always be the most solid core of any sort of relationship. It's the biggest palette that gives color to the dull and plain canvass of our lives. As for these 2 lovely girlfriends of mine, i think they painted the brightest yellows and the prettiest pink on my canvass. I learn from the stories they share, i laugh my heart out with them, they fill my tummy with food and gas( from talking and laughing) enough to inflate a balloon :D They inspire me to be better: Grace looking very stunning after a bad break up/Jhe oh geez sister i dont even know how to start..the juggling of work and graduate school while keeping an eye on Ivan hahaha!:D joke!!:D i mean keeping Ivan happy and the relationship healthy,hands up sister!:D Thank you for sharing your life with me, it's overwhelming:) I love you girlies:) Let's work hard so we can travel alot ;D As for the boys, we can't thank you enough for being very supportive:D
Monthly Friendly Dates had never bee soooo exciting until last month:D
The Monthly Group :D
♥hun&i/"prettier than ever after the break-up"Grace/lovely couple Jhe&Ivan♥
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thank you soo much designer sisterr Jhe for the pretty pretty 1 year supply of earringsÜ
they are LOVELY♥
'till our next date loves!♥ can't wait!Ü
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