Friday 22 July 2011

on our 8th year and 3rd month together

They say behind every successful man is a woman batting her eye lash and true enough i can't even remember how many times my eyes went thru exorcism stints just to show my dismay on annoying things you do, my disagreement in some decisions you make and sometimes just to prove a point or catch your attention. But hey i love you!:)

They also say the best way to a man's heart is thru his tummy and now, look at you-your size 30 pants no longer fits and yet that bulging tummy keeps growing everyday. I lost count on how many meals we've shared, how many calories we've gained(yeah i know,i'm the tangible testament to that), how much money we've spent over unhealthy yet irresistible junkfoods, how many cuts and burns i've had just to cook for you but hey, that's how much i love you.Ü

They say if you've been together 4 years and still unmarried, it's not worth the time. But look at us, still unmarried for more than 8 years in the eyes of man but we're more than married in heart,soul and mind in God's eyes. We're in love like that.

I don't know how many more here-says they have, some even said we're not gonna last but through and through, i know and i definitely believe that in the end there will and always be "US".

A repost from my tumblr on our 95th:
I can’t even remember when we’ve said our first hi’s and hello’s, the first time we held hands nor the first time we kissed- what i remember thou is that since he came; since he’d been a part of my ordinary life everything turned out to be extra ordinary. Yes, i might forget the many firsts  but what i remember clearly were the feelings that the first encounter, first touch and the first kiss had left me-i was in awe, i wasn’t expecting a stranger like him could change my life in a nick of time. The fights we had were no exception, i can’t believe that someone can care as much as he did; the amount of concern he offered was enough to make him mad if i screw things up and for that i loved him more. Sometimes it felt like he loved me more than i loved him but he kept telling me that the amount of love shouldn’t be measured. It’s not an issue of who loved more or who loved less it’s about loving and not expecting anything in return..that’s the noble him. He might not seem like the sweetest guy on earth, he’s not gonna bombard you with flowers and chocolates nor will he brag about the things he got for you but he will definitely sweep you off your feet with the trust and confidence he’ll give you, the amount of encouragement and inspiration he gives is just immeasurable. Over the years he has been my best friend, my critic, my number 1 fan at the same time my number 1 kontrabida. We have both learned to love the worst and the best in each other, to gain strength from one’s weakness and to turn a series of bad luck to a wonderful learning experience. Almost 8 years since i let him in my life and there’s not an inch of regret from that moment on. Sure we don’t have a perfect relationship-we have the ugliest fights that no one in the world could ever imagine; we hate each other at times; we throw sarcasm and bad attitudes once in awhile but we don’t give up on each other, and thats what makes our relationship real. We don’t pretend, we let our inhibitions out and we work it out. I couldn’t think of anybody else in the world who could compliment my crazy twisted ideas but him, no one could ever love the mean girl that lives inside me but him. 95 months of “togetherness”; 95 months of memories worth keeping most of all 95 months worth of priceless, immeasurable, untainted, real, unexplainable, incomparable and worth cherishing love, life and laughter.  And yes, i fall in love more each day!♥

On our 99th month together, i thank you even more,i love you even more and sometimes hate you even more :D I don't know what the future holds for us, i dont know how many more struggles we'd have to go thru but one thing's for certain, as long as i got you...we'd battle out those problems, give them a feat and bid them adieu Ü

Thank you for the 99 months of roller coaster ride of life side by side. It was bumby, edgy, exciting, crazy & lovely-definitely worth the ride even if i go thru it my whole lifetime. Cheers to an eternity of love so crazy yet feels so right.♥♥♥

I love you more than i hate you,hehe!Ü Happy 99th!♥

3 comments:

  1. Wow hun im impressed, Im so proud of you I love you so much, Happy 99th monthsary. mwaaa.

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  2. Hala! Ngayon ko lang nabasa to. OMG. Why am I crying? Maybe because every single word that's been said in this article is so real, so true. Yes, I am a witness of your love and friendship! I love you both :) More years together mader and daddy al!

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  3. Thank You Andeng! love you much!Ü

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